.Sunday, February 26, 2006 ' 10:23 PM Y
i love being around you
Last night i sort of had a heart to heart talk with xingwei,
Yep she's one of my consultants.
Anyway i was askin her about christopher and stuff.
Hold on IM NOT GAY BTW. I was askin how to maintain a relationship.
Anyway both of them are like role models to me.
To be frank, i'm kinda jealous of them and thier perfect relationship.
First of all christopher is sweet,charming,handsome and lots more,
He is one of those guys who make us MAN proud.
On the other hand, xingwei is sweet,lovable,understanding.
What a perfect match right?
Yes indeed and i envy them both.
Anyway, We talked alot, basically she told what a relationship demands.
Firstly, you go into a relationship because you love one another.
Don't be a jackass and say, : oh i think she's damn hot and pretty.
If you don't love he/her. Then don't get into a relationship.
I think its really stupid when i hear this kinda things.
You get into a relationship because you know,
Yes this is the guy/girl i want to love and want to spend the
rest of my life with.
Secondly,Trust is very important factor i guess.
You should never ever doubt your loved one. If she's say she's busy
Then she's busy, don't come and tell me (ehh i think my girlfriends out with a guy)
That will be totally random.
Thirdyly, you should learn to be understanding,
Yes and this is the key to solving problems.
Stop being a hard nut, if your wrong than admit it.
Im sure he/she would understand your situation.
But if he don't understand, tell he/she to go DIE.
Forthly, Respect. You don't go into an relationship to gain something out of it.
You go in it because u love he/she. Don't be a jack ass and say
m: hey baby u know i really love you. lets have sex.
Okie maybe if u want to have sex. Thats a 80's way. Do it with more
style and fashion =X
Okie, i was just jokin about that. Yes, a relationship, needs matual respect.
Things like, his/her parents, his/her religion, etc. . .
You don't go into a relationship, and start demanding things.
Yes indeed life will change, but have your limits.
Lastly, You need to have communication.
Im sure u won't want to hang out with a guy who just bores you.
This relationship is a long term thing, or for the rest of your life.
Get someone who knows you,
What if u married this boring guy,
Scenerio 1. (H: husband & W: wife)
W:Hey honey, lets go rock climbing.
H:What? you know i don't like that. Lets go to a library and read.
That is really going to make your partner sleep :)
All this are the fruits of a relationship.
To get in one, you have to understand this.
Treat this as your Basic Theory test.
Anyway goodluck to all girls/guys out there.
Like mummy always say,
Mummy: Son, come her u asshole, let me u tell u something!
Your report card shows F9,Somebody gonna get a hurt real bad,
Okie just joking, She always say:
God has already planned someone for u so you don't have to worry.
Oops,please strike out the asshole one. Im not a asshole,
But a cute son of hers.BOOOO! :)
